People have this assumption that I know the 'ish' about women and love. I DON'T. All I have, is an understanding towards something called REALITY!! Today, therefore, I seek to clear the air and share my 'perceived' knowledge with you. Should any of this be 'greek' I was taking direct lessons from Cupid, and his speech was not layman's.Life is a road with so many signs, says reggae artist Antonio; love is blind yet some believe in love at first sight and go for blind dates; how can people expect to FALL in love injury-free, yet falling is an activity that entails one being hurt, isn't it?; people ask, "Why did you love him/her?" and await a reason in response; question is, what if the reason fades-off; does it mean the love shall be no more? Aha, you are thinking it? For example, "I love her because she is beautiful and intelligent!" Let's Assume s/he gets an accident and suffers an amnesia, will you love him/her still? Hmm, senseless questions, you think? Well, thats is reality for you.
The 3 Secrets to women.
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Aha, I hope no gentleman is trying to read braille here, thus is touching the screen to have a feel of what I might have written. HA!!. Simply put, there is no secret to women, and if there is, were it to be told, it would not be a secret anymore. Aren't secrets, never meant to be known; so what is the logic of trying to unearth it? Don't you think the unpredictability of women is what makes them so alluring?
Personally, I concluded that the only way I would understand women, is to understand that I could not understand women. Even Doctor Phil meets a hard nut to crack once in a while. I do know, there have been numerous observations about this wonderful being, and conclusions have been reached..yet again, none has been standard across all borders. Therefore, instead of trying to play a Newton-understand-gravity role with women, I simply choose to LISTEN and DO.
It is said that the way to a woman's heart is through the ear. It is true!!..sadly, most men understand this one way though. They presume it is only by use of sweet talk, thus their fall. Gentlemen, you need to create a conversation, but make sure you listen more. Women talk roughly 20, 000 words a day. I am not telling you to play pet dog, or to be girly, and she thinks you are one of the sisters, HELL NO!!! Act and be a man, yet be a smart one, one who uses his ears. Listen, and you shall know what she wants, then ACT..you are smart enough to know she has what you want; can listening be so tough? And do ask where you don't understand!! If she scorns you and asks why you are questioning too much, just tell her you are concerned ABOUT HER, that you are trying to be a better man FOR HER, that you do not WANT HER to be burdened by an overdose of words, thus she should spill them out. IT IS ALWAYS ABOUT HER!! Oh,do not waste time trying to read in between the lines, yet you have never seen the book. Just listen!!
Should this fail you, be a priest and await the nuns... PRAY with them. Don't be a pervert!! Ha.
It is said that the way to a woman's heart is through the ear. It is true!!..sadly, most men understand this one way though. They presume it is only by use of sweet talk, thus their fall. Gentlemen, you need to create a conversation, but make sure you listen more. Women talk roughly 20, 000 words a day. I am not telling you to play pet dog, or to be girly, and she thinks you are one of the sisters, HELL NO!!! Act and be a man, yet be a smart one, one who uses his ears. Listen, and you shall know what she wants, then ACT..you are smart enough to know she has what you want; can listening be so tough? And do ask where you don't understand!! If she scorns you and asks why you are questioning too much, just tell her you are concerned ABOUT HER, that you are trying to be a better man FOR HER, that you do not WANT HER to be burdened by an overdose of words, thus she should spill them out. IT IS ALWAYS ABOUT HER!! Oh,do not waste time trying to read in between the lines, yet you have never seen the book. Just listen!!
Should this fail you, be a priest and await the nuns... PRAY with them. Don't be a pervert!! Ha.
Love!!! Mmh, the one thing thats oiling our T.V stations daily in the name of soap operas. Ladies love them, some strangely despise them. You see, never expect a universal or standard reaction from ladies. So, ladies and gentlemen, the major problem here, is sourced from the creation of utopias with regard to this natural force. Once we are 'in love', we expect perfection from human beings. Now, that is the ultimate recipe for heart aches, disappointments and the likes. I am not advocating for lack of faith in this natural ecstasy, nope, I simply advocate for its taming. Yes, dream big-but one thing stands, it is still a dream. God himself, for those who do believe in one, concludes that human beings are to err- who are we to expect perfection from humans. Aha, spot on again, right? I am not cold, in fact, my close pals think I am soft at heart: difference between them and I, is that I choose to live in the real world.Human's err, leave room for that. Blame yourself also, if you use this as a fall-back, and let someone walk over you. There is a very thin line between reality and stupidity. You will solely determine that. You have to love yourself, so as to be able to love others. STANDARD RULE OF LOVE!! Share your discomforts, cherish the golden moments, rekindle them when you can, learn from the mistakes and use them to make you (plural) better..and never take anyone for granted!! Learn how to make ordinary moments, extra-ordinary, and you will have more laughs than cries. There is a reason why marriage vows are double-edged; in sickness and in health, in rich or poor, in good times or bad times..aha..simply because life is so....what's your take?
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