Mr. RIGHT weds Ms. PERFECT?

The so called day of love, Valentine Day, is here with us, and from where I am located, the double RR code of Red-Roses has been on the rise with every minute that tocks by. Many remarks have been highlighted today, with men being verbally battered for being too macho, and women being shunned from expecting too much. Therefore, it is without doubt that egos have been bruised, hearts have been broken, and some have conquered all odds and opted to stand tall. Anhu, in all this fascination, there is one issue that always comes to birth, the existence of Mr. Right and Ms.Perfect...well, I stand to be corrected!!


From the counsel I have attained thus far in life, research and keen observation, one fact stands tall-love is about giving, and in life, perfection does not exist. I find it hilarious that a lady would seek a Mr.Perfect, yet majority want a man they can work on-(consciously or sub-consciously). Deep down a lady's instinct, is the maternal thirst to improve a state of being. This craving, plays a key role in luring women to bad-boys...the belief that they can make them fall in love and tune them into their ideal mate, is rampant. Every woman, from their ripe days of playing with dolls, always wants to be an agent of change-and this is for the better mark you. Therefore, the essence of penning down a list and expecting a man to fit the billing, yet at the same time seek one to 'improve' is wholly paradoxical. Compliment and not content is key to relationship bliss.




As for good boys, well, nothing much can be done, because they do it all right..and that's there undoing at times. Thus, to all surprise, a lady may start complaining that the man, is too good, or is weak-solely because, I believe, the man provides no room for contribution to growth for the lady, offers no room for adventure and is thus, a boring, composed song, with no hope of riddim remix . Women hustle us much to put down the toilet seat, squeeze the toothpaste from below etc., petty, you may think, right?..they simply want the gratification that they made us better...that is why the slightest wrong act can cause havoc..she must be an agent of change and growth and that is one of the keen ways of sweetening their ego, and ascertaining their value to a man. 


Thus, what am I driving it...hmm. Simple, be who you are, and accept those you want for they are. Don't be naive and be caught up in the delusion of 'better the devil you know', you are way better than that, you deserve an angel. Yet again, errs are what make us appreciate the input and value of someone else in our lives, thus, expect no perfection, but simply wed reality!!


Just for a Minute: Think about it, perfection in relationships does not exist even in cartoons and stories: Cinderella was a popper, Beauty wed the beast, Snow-White fancied the dwarfs, the so called prince who was kissed-was once a FROG, in Notre-Dame, the was a hunchback etc... It is not that I have no faith in man, just that reality has explained it plain and simple: Nobody is Perfect. Even the Supreme Being himself, knows man shall err, no wonder there is provision for forgiveness. Anhu, back to matters emotion.....




My Opinion on Nyeri-Battery:I believe that the women pleas of communication have simply fell on deaf ears, thus have opted to the last resort-ACTIONS. NB-Actions, speak louder than words, don't they? What say you?